Be Respectful of Relatives
20. In cultivating virtues, a man should first set a good example in his relationship with his wife, treating her courteously at all times. He then extends this manner further to become a role model to his brothers and sisters, and applies the same principles further to govern a country.
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21. A king is related to a crown prince as father-and-son, but according to the royal hierarchy relationship, they should be classified as a king and his subject. A king should care for his people as dearly as a father to his children, and uphold his sovereignty before he could run his administration well and gain the full support of his people.
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22. Te book of Zuo Zhuan said: “When the Zhou emperors held counsels to form alliances with the patrimonial lords, members outside the Zhou clans were seated at the back.” Indeed the deep-rooted affections among relatives would always be prioritized and this close relationship would still be maintained despite disputes. Family ties should be genuine and faithful. Never had faithful and honorable subordinates neglected their leaders, or benevolent individuals abandoned their relatives.
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23. When people holding high positions could show filial piety to their parents and care for their siblings, this exemplary role model would evoke compassion in others. So, by not deserting old friends, everyone would become caring toward each other.
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